for ourselves or for others

[stressmom]

I have always found this to be interesting- many say women do not necessarily want to look good for themselves or for men, but for other women. Do you think this is true?

[blemons]

Unfortunately I think that there are so many of us who start this journey of change without the right people and goals in mind. We never really think of what it can do for us, only others. I am determined to get off that track myself but need help and confidence to get there.